Chem Day 3: “Now, might be the time to pray”

“Now, might be the time to pray,” according to our pharmacist. We had a lively and insightful visit from our pharmacist this morning. We understand from his advice that it’s time to pray for healing. Day 3-4 is when symptoms may become more severe. Fortunately, since Jadan’s steroid dosage was lowered, he has been doing very well. No shakiness or chills. And he has been doing very well with meals. Today, the doctor added a new anti-nausea medication to help offset the lowering of the steroid. Jadan has responded very well to that also.

One surprising bit of information we learned this week was related to Jadan’s cancer stage level. Jadan was asked to sign a paper acknowledging the medications they were administering – that is where he saw he was at stage 3b, with the highest stage set at 3c. I am grateful for the life-saving science and attentive care Jadan is receiving.

At home, the Subi and Po have been paying closer attention to Jadan than normal. We think they know something is going on. Subi couldn’t understand why she didn’t get out of the car with us this morning. And then this afternoon, Po gave him a funny look. Perhaps he was wondering where Jadan was all day. Now that Jadan is home, everyone seems to be happier.

One thing I appreciated during today’s treatment was how hard each nurse works to care for their patients. It is obvious that they care deeply for each person they serve. One of the pros of chemo treatment is making new friendships with those serving in the healthcare field. The nature of chemo calls for many visits, which provide endless opportunities to get to know the staff. It feels like we are in a different world where the societal ills that typically take precedence in everyday life may become a point of conflict and anxiety, and are not the center of the universe. Rather, what is truly important is the sincere care, attention, support, and encouragement given to each person as they strive with heart and soul to live a life full of health and wellbeing.

During today’s treatment, Jadan decided that tonight would be the night for a dynamic change. One of the side effects of chemotherapy is hair loss within the first week of treatment. It was inspiring to see Jadan embrace the beauty in being bald. And WOW, he rocked the “Bald is Beautiful!” Didn’t he?

Ta-Dah!!! Game on Cancer! He is already looking forward to a scalp massage.

Chemo Day 3 Art:

Today’s art is about gratitude for being present in the moment and being the change by imbuing thoughts and actions with love. Tangles, such as Bales, Flux, Fescu, and Orbs, embellished the word ‘BE’. You are invited to create your “BE” art inspired by gratitude.

Thy name is my healing, O my God, and remembrance of Thee is my remedy. Nearness to Thee is my hope, and love for Thee is my companion. Thy mercy to me is my healing and my succor in both this world and the world to come. Thou, verily, art the All-Bountiful, the All-Knowing, the All-Wise.

Prayers and Meditations by Bahá’u’lláh     

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